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A weblog reflecting an Austin, TX lawyer's interest in ethics, personal coaching, the flow experience, NLP, communication, and particularly and generally, happiness.

Remembering the (bogus) Taste of Apples...

December 30, 2008

Update:
Story a fake.

S****-em. No more bandwidth for you, Rosepetal.

Sometimes it's good to quit before it becomes a habit. Why here at Chez Dilys "minding our own business" increasingly means letting the soppy taste-of-honey rumors pass, along with everything else. If we don't line up at the Rumor-Monger's, eyes glittering with high-minded emotion, begging for "uplift," we provide less fodder for these molded-styrofoam distractions -- cyber-Madoff for the mind, sentimentality of bullies and victims equally tyrant and parasite.

October 14, 2008

...and letting the grudges go.

Things can turn out right eventually. Even though the past cannot be changed, it need not tyrannize anyone.

Let the grudges go
Herman and Rosa Rosenblat

Courtesy Maggie's Farm.

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Life, Getting on with

April 22, 2008

A dove nesting in the vines above the Labyrinth Garden at a downtown church, Austin, Spring, 2008. Quiet and green in the midst of the city: a garden does a body good.

It's satisfying to see something ancient spring to life, off the page.

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Don't Miss the Moment

May 4, 2007

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[Referenced in the comments here]  

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Happiness Straight Up

July 27, 2006

Once again, in words of mostly one syllable:

The message of true religion
never was designed \
to make our pleasures less.

Courtesy of Second Terrace, here, from Dostoevski's The Brothers Karamazov, on happiness.

I love that passage—it’s Cana of Galilee, the first miracle … Ah, that miracle, what a lovely miracle! It wasn’t sorrow, it was human happiness that Christ extolled, and the first miracle He worked was to bring men happiness … 'He who loves men loves their happiness,' Father Zosima used to repeat so often—that was one of his guiding ideas … What is true and beautiful is always full of forgiveness…”

Part of the intuition of Carl Jung and his idea of Archetypes is that qualities cluster, keep company in a force field. Thus

  • happiness
  • truth
  • beauty
  • forgiveness   

-- according to Dostoevski's saintly character Zosima, these are signals that Someone is Nearby, turning the water of "not-good-enough" into plenty of excellent wine.
 

The sorrows of the mind be banished from this place.

So writes Dilys from retirement, and so say all of us!

Update:

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July 27, 2006 in Happiness, what constitutes | Permalink | Comments (2)

The Pursuit of Happiness

July 4, 2006

It should be mentioned that posting this recent Baldo drawing here today Baldo_pursuit_of_happiness_2is self-directed at the chief leisure-lover here at Chez Dilys. It would be a regrettable irony to select something from a charming Hispanic-oriented comic strip, as somehow pointed toward that community, inasmuch as our near Hispanic neighbors exhibit a genius for willingness to work that seems to have no end.

The point is that happiness includes in its components its own pursuit. As usual, Graciela is the character who has the last word.

July 04, 2006 in Happiness, what constitutes | Permalink | Comments (1)

“We must not desire to become a deeper self than God wills”

Above all, we must not wish to cling to our suffering. 

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June 23, 2006 in Happiness, what constitutes | Permalink | Comments (0)

Orthodox Economics

June 21, 2006

Sharing good things. Another feature of the Value-Added Life.

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Ecology of Goodness, also in the Sense of Delectable Happiness

Physicians and epidemiologists look for prior conditions, weakened immune systems, nutritional strengths or deficiencies, terrain that supports life, as determinants of most other phenomena exhibited by an organism or community.

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June 18, 2006 in Happiness, what constitutes | Permalink | Comments (0)

Oh, no, surely not moi

June 14, 2006

Will Wilkinson again, on the condition of happiness and how you, or I, might not want to let go of the misery and drift over to greater happiness, if

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...a house where the daily bread is love, pardon and understanding...

May 30, 2006

...and splendor, and merriment, and the bloom of life.

Benedict XVI to the young on happiness, and even real estate. The rules are in service of these good things, so we can be happy, not to placate some dour old guy. :-) Or gal.

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